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First glance at the title and my brain retitled it to "there's food at home" and I heard that title being read in my mother's voice.

Reading the post through tho, I am now curious about the song and artist.

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get what you mean—it's one of those phrases that almost every African, especially Nigerians, has heard at some point: "There's food at home." It’s such a common saying, something many of us grew up with. So it's not surprising that the essay title brings that same vibe to mind. It just resonates naturally.

And yes, Noah Kahan is truly a remarkable artist. His music has this unique feel to it. "Growing Sideways" and "Orange Juice" tracks are my favorites.

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I loooveee Noah Kahan! And orange juice is definitely one of my favorite songs!!! Thank you for writing this! 💕

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thanks for sharing that, EB.

i’m curious, what does noah’s music do to you that no other artist does?

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OMG! This is a deep question 😅😭 I feel like I need to write an essay to explain this 😂 but long story short, Noah Kahan kind of helps me channel a certain kind of anger that I couldn't express when I was younger, so his songs feel like that expression for me now. I can relate to a lot of stuff he sings about, and I love his humor and openness! I feel seen through many of his songs. Truthfully I thank God for introducing Noah's music to me! 😊

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first of all, let me appreciate you for your willingness to share.

while reading i couldn’t but notice this sounds like we can dig into this more.

the anger you speak of from childhood, where did it come from?

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Mhhh well, feeling so sad at such a young age concerned me and made me feel like I was weird 😂 and because I was always the quiet kid, a lot was left unsaid, and I'm not sure but I guess that's where anger comes from...

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like the anger from not being heard, i guess?

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Yess!!!

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Can't get this line out of my head, "there is orange juice in the kitchen." In the context of this piece, it is a very deep line.

Thank you for this piece, it is a timely one!

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i’m glad it came off that way to you. Love this for you, SB.

do you care to unpack why it stuck you this much? I’m interested

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This was such a pleasing read, thank you fam!

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thanks for engaging fam. I’m curious, Was there something that spoke to you there?

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I needed to hear this today.

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i’m glad you did. Thanks for reading Victoria.

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…healing isn’t a straight line…

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I feel blessed reading this. I feel like God and mines see me and tell me that I am loved no matter what. Thank you.

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i see your, Uchenna. Get in here. 🫂

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now why is it such a good song omg 😭

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thanks for reading. Curious, is it your first time hearing this song ?

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I just listened to the song 🥹

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tell me what you think. talk to me like i’m your diary 😍

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I'm not familiar with the song but will be seeking it out after reading this. Your personal interpretation of the lines does a lot to help your reader self-reflect on how the words impact them as well based on their own personal experiences/life path.

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i couldn’t agree more. It was so weird how the words just came rushing at me as i listened.

i couldn’t help but see that image painted in my mind. And maybe it’s because of the experience i had when my aunty walked out on my uncle leaving him with 3 kids.

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Yeah, I often see things, be it paintings, pictures, even buildings for the first time, it takes me back to other memories of assorted experiences from the past.

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right?!! it’s a magical.

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This is one of my favorite Noah Kahan songs. The first time I listened to it was right before I moved to NY and got sober. I was drinking way too much at the time. And I knew I had outgrown it. It still makes me cry every time I hear it

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Nice and needed. About to listen to this song

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Omggggg such a beautiful song . It reminded me of Gods love for us. It’s so beautiful to have that type of love .

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it really is . One that accepts me as i am.

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