The things you don't see

My woman tells me “if what you see is all that you see, then you’ve not seen all that there is to see”

I was a jerk!

I’ve talked about my relationship on this blog, so it’s no news I’m in one.

Most of you know me as a trustworthy being, a relatable being, and some of you even always thought I was a strong Christian (LOL).

What you’d never have known if I don’t mention it is how I’ve struggled with ladies and smoking in the past. Most of these ladies I never met but we wanted to have flings.

This issue with ladies almost cost me, my woman, very recently. It took the grace of God to rebuild this relationship all over again.

This gist is a really long one, but we’d have to continue this another day. Long story short, I gave my life to Christ on the 4th of March 2021, and I and my partner are rebuilding all over again. One day we’d discuss how strong my woman was in all of these.

At this point, you’re wondering “Why is Tobi sharing his secret with me?”. For me, writing has become a means of healing. Sometimes, the only way you heal is by sharing your story with someone you trust. Does that mean I trust you? Maybe! Am I ready for whatever consequences sharing this publicly will do? Of course ke! My point is, speaking up (voicing it, writing it, etc……..) is where becoming better, healing, and self-forgiveness begin.

We all have demons we’re fighting with, in secret.

All you see is not enough.

John 8:7

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